Straight From the Heart} *The Gloves* 1/20/00 Welcome to "Straight From the Heart!" If you enjoy this free daily email service, I encourage you to forward it on to family and friends. If this has been passed along to you and you want to join the list, just send a blank email to: Thunder27@aol.com I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism, so feel free to write me (Michael T. Powers) and let me know what you think! ________________________________________________________ The Gloves by Ellie Braun-Haley It was New Year's Day and I had just arrived back in the country after spending almost a month in the warm mountain valley of a large Mexican city. I had gone to spend Christmas with my husband who was teaching anthropology, there in the city of Oaxaca. What a change to be back in the central part of Alberta, just in time to see the cold winds of winter bring in a colder front. I work part time for an agency that provides support to adults who have mental disabilities and I was scheduled to be at work on New Year's Day at 9:00 am. I got up at 7:00 that morning and glanced outside, forgetting that at that time of day there would be little light to allow me to judge the temperatures outside. I walked outside and the warmth of the Chinook winds assured me we were in for a good day. I checked the huge bird feeder and returned indoors to finish getting ready for work. Feeling secure I did not bother to retrieve my winter gloves from the van, which Shawn, my husband usually drove. It felt so good to be back in Canada. I was born in the province of Alberta and I loved our change of seasons. It was exciting to note the signs of spring each year outdoors and I loved driving back and forth to work over the graveled country roads in the fall to see the multi colors of the farmers fields and take in the beauty of our tiny valley. I also enjoyed seeing the countryside covered in hoar frost and often felt like a princess in a beautiful and special land whenever I drove out to view the wonders of nature. My first day back at work went well and as night approached I remembered that the car needed gas. By 8:00 that night it felt a lot colder out as I rushed to the car to complete a few errands. One of the ladies I worked with was with me and we had agreed on picking up a video to watch. When the errands were done we headed for the only gas station that was open. I didn't want to use that particular station because you had to pump your own gas and by now I was well aware that the temperature was quickly dropping and a light wind was picking up. I drive a Cavalier. It is a great little car, but I always have a problem in getting the gas cap off, just another reason for using the stations that still have gas jockeys. And the truth of the matter is I always enjoy the friendliness at these stations! By the time I had managed to get the gas cap off my hands woke up, felt the cold and begged to go indoors! Since I had no gloves with me, I thought I could put my hand in my pocket and squeeze the gas handle through my coat. This of course meant that I had to bend over and press my hip near the open gas outlet. I knew I was in a funny position and I glanced around to see a member of the Royal Canadian Police Force looking at me strangely. He was on the other side of the pumps and also just pulled in to fill his gas tank. I felt I should provide an explanation. "I know I look silly, but my hands are so cold and I thought if I put my hands in my pocket I could use my coat for protection. BUT, that means I have to stand in this awkward position." For a moment, he said nothing. He probably thinks I'm a real nut case, I thought to myself. Then I heard a voice and saw a pair of gloves sticking out beyond his gas pump. "Could you use a pair of gloves?" I shut off the pump and walked over to the extended brown leather "life savers". "Oh yes please." I replied, taking the offering and slipping my hands into their welcome warmth. I went back and returned to filling my tank. Then I leaned over, still holding the handle and noticed that the officer was pumping gas with nothing to protect his hands from the cold. Then it hit me. The gloves I wore were not a spare pair that he had. He had given up the warmth to help me. I felt grateful, embarrassed, then worried. "But you need something for your hands too, " I said. "Oh, I get used to it," he responded. "Don't worry, I'm fine." In minutes my tank was full and I thanked him, returned his gloves and went in to pay for my purchase. I felt so elated. I had just been the recipient of goodness! I was overwhelmed by good feelings and as soon as the gentleman came in I smiled at him and told him I sure owed him a hot cup of coffee or something. He stood there and told me it was his pleasure and I knew he meant it. What a lovely welcome back to the country I loved. And so, the gift was small yet to me the gesture was full of goodness. No life had been saved and nothing earth shattering took place, but the goodness of another human being surely touched my life. Ah, the thoughtfulness of this Alberta R.C.M.P. officer! Ellie Braun-Haley shaley@telusplanet.net Send Ellie an email and let her know what you thought about her story! A little bit about Ellie: Ellie is happily married to a college professor, Shawn and though they now live alone they are the parents of five and grandparents of four. Ellie has a full time job working with adults and children who have disabilities. She lectures and teaches workshops part time for Colleges and private organizations. She and Shawn have just published four books. check them out at: http://www.eaglecreek.org In her spare time Ellie continues to gather stories for another book. While you are at Eagle Creek, visit For Goodness Sake to read the stories of goodness that are contributed. "I think I was put on this earth to make people happy!" says Ellie ___________________________________________________ REQUESTS: My daughter is at the Boston Shriner's Burn Hospital. She has 90% of her body covered with third degree burns. She was playing with a candle and caught herself on fire. By the time I got to her, she was completely engulfed in flames. I have never experienced something this horrible in my life. Nothing compares to it. I put the fire out as quickly as I could, but she still has only an 80% chance at survival. Please please pray for her. And for us. She probably won't remember this, but the worst for me is replaying the fire, her screams, the helplessness and fear, over and over again every time I close my eyes. Please have anyone you can send this to pray for her. Her name is Jasmine, and although she's strong, she needs a miracle. They are doing skin grafts, but the only part of her body without third degree burns are her scalp, buttocks, and a small part of her right arm, so the progress is very slow. They won't know if she'll survive for another six weeks or so, so! please continue praying and checking the page for updates. Cards can be sent to the Boston Shriner's Burn Hospital (Jasmine Tilton), 15 Blossom Street, Boston, MA 02114. If we receive the miracle and she lives, it will be awesome to read over them with her later on and see how much of the country was praying for her. She survived her first surgery today, six hours, and they said she is remarkably stable all things considered. Please pray. I will post my new address here at the hospital (e-mail) after the page is set up and an account. Thanks for the prayers. Please don't stop and forward this to anyone who will pray. Thanks again Heather. Email to: malkemes@channel1.com A SPECIAL THANK YOU! From: jfitzger@neocom.net (Jean Fitzgerald) Dear Michael, Thank you very much for running our story, "A Portrait in Courage." When I say our, I mean mine and Julie's. I'm always anxious to give an account for what God has done for us. Will you please pass along my thanks to all the people who wrote Julie and me. It was such a blessing. Julie is pretty much shut-in now except when her husband is off from work and can take her out. She was very excited about all the e-mail she received because of the story. Thank you again. Jean ___________________________________________________ Thought For The Day: "Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." (Mark Twain) Verse for the Day: "For His merciful kindness is great towards us: and the truth of the Lord endureth forever. Praise ye the Lord." Psalm 117:2 Kid's Thought For The day: "Be afraid of a kid who is never afraid." Parent's Thought For The Day There are three stages of a man's life: 1. He believes in Santa Claus. 2. He doesn't believe in Santa Claus. 3. He is Santa Claus. Coach's Thought For The Day "By itself, practice does not make perfect. Anyone with a ten year old son practicing the trumpet may understand that." (Dr. Daniel Hanley) Deep Thought For The Day: "A toast to bread, for without bread, there could be no toast." (They can't all be good!) _ /_/\/\ MICHAEL T. POWERS \_\ / THUNDER27@aol.com http://members.aol.com/Thunder27/index.html /_/ \ "For I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but \_\/\ \ Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body I live for the Son \_\/ of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me." Galatians 2:20 "I thought of you first after my family sat down to watch the video we gave them. They loved it, to say the least! Within thirty seconds my mom was crying and my dad did too. They said it was the best Christmas gift we could have given them!! You did such a beautiful job! They were so suprised and so touched---they really, really, really loved it. Thanks for helping to make it so special to us all. My mom mentioned how the songs were perfect for the video too! Thanks again!" Kelli (RKaGe@aol.com) College Station, TX Let me make you a video from your pictures or home movies! Check out the web page for Michael's video production business! Video Imagery http://members.aol.com/Videoimg/index.html