__________________________________________ {Straight From the Heart} *He's A Father to the Fatherless* 5/16/00 __________________________________________ Welcome to "Straight From the Heart!" If you enjoy this free daily email service, I encourage you to forward it on to family and friends. If this has been passed along to you and you want to join the list, just send a blank email to: Thunder27@aol.com I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism, so feel free to write me (Michael T. Powers) and let me know what you think! __________________________________________ HE'S A FATHER TO THE FATHERLESS By: David King He was walking down the street with two things: a small bag of possessions and a large dejected face. I don't know which of those caught my attention first. The boy, who appeared to be around 10 years old, was slight and grubby. Not only was he aimlessly walking down a large street, but there were stains where normal 10 year old boys don't have stains. It was immediately plain to me that there was no one in his life to scrub the stains. I recalled quickly, that when I was his age, I would have been excited to not have a cleaning fanatic for a Mother to scrub stains. I remember looking at him and thinking "how long can you leave a stain on a face before it becomes permanent?" What was he looking forward to? Where was he going? His too large sneakers, whose sides were blown out, scrubbed the asphalt and occasionally made him stop. He only turned his feet sideways, tap out the stray rock that had worked its way inside, and kept walking. His pants were a size too large, and it was evident they were castoffs. Someone else's yard sale material had became his fare. His shirt was tediously tucked in all the way around, as if he had met someone, somewhere, that left enough impression on him that "one ought to keep things well tucked in." From the look I received when I spoke with him, it was evident that he had mastered well the art of tucking things in. "How many hurts there? How many promises to himself to stay away from others?" I wondered. He was very well tucked in. He picked up his pace after I spoke. I had an incredible urge to chase him down, pick up his small frame and hold him. I wonder if he ever had his neck nuzzled, until a giggle erupts, as I have done my two sons? Do you think he knows what to do if daddy acts like he "gets his nose" with two fingers and a thumb? When was the last time he had anything to eat, other than from picking it out of a can, or from a sympathetic restaurant clerk? Has anyone ever let him cradle on their chest and read a book? I couldn't imagine him smelling like shampoo and toothpaste and dressed in soft clean pajamas. Too many stains, too well tucked in, no place to be, no one to answer to. No Father. There are all too many fatherless children in this world in that condition. The appear all alone, but, if asked, they would recite a stock answer, and then back away into their cardboard boxes. They look poor and sickly, and if asked, they would extend an outstretched palm and "untuck" a little and look into your eyes. To us, they have too many stains and unmanageable hair. When asked, they will defend their way, argue against the true value of soap and water, retreat again into their boxes, check that they are still tucked in, ignore their stains and wait for you to leave. They have learned to be comfortable with their condition. There is a Father to the fatherless, you know. One Father who knows where all the cardboard boxes are, He counts noses and understands stains on children. He knows just how to "untuck" the feelings of little boys without mommas, and feeds those boys just as earnestly as he feeds the sparrow. He gently rouses these little lads each morning, shakes them with a tender breeze, or spreads the dew upon their nose enough to wake them from their slumber. Puts direction in their stomach, and then feeds them. He doesn't appear to be prejudiced of their color, their poverty, or their stains. He does well with an outstretched palm. There is a Father to the fatherless. His name is Jesus. I wonder sometimes how we appear to God as we wander down the roads of our lives. Some of us feel we are well garnished by our fine garments and our suede shoes. We do our best to remove the stains and keep our hands in our pockets instead of having them outstretched. We defend our conditions, recognize no poverty in our own economy, and certainly admit no rambling in our own feet. We are very well tucked in, all the way around. I sometimes have wished to meet the personality that taught us to stay tucked in. I have yet to understand the intelligence of our hiding hearts behind walls. Yet we all manage to stay well tucked in. Many of us don't know how it feels to recline on a Father's chest as he tells his story. We don't know how to get his attention when we need him. Do you know how it feels to have the bullies chase you and then the mad dash into his lap? Have you learned to trust him enough to take care of your problems? Watch him point at the wind and say, "be muzzled" and then address the roaring waves to say: "be still". And then just enjoy sitting in his lap for a while. When is the last time you laughed with him? Enjoyed a beautiful sunset or a graceful butterfly? There is a Father to the fatherless. You do know that, don't you? He reaches for us, walking aimlessly down these asphalt corridors of life. Hard roads. Roads that are full of small stones that work their way into our shoes and make us stop. Sadly, we have learned to misconstrue the true purpose of those small stones that work their way into our shoes. Instead of searching, understanding, we stop only long enough to shake a little, squirm a bit, turn around and see if anyone notices, and then tuck back in again, keep walking. Are you there? Is this you? If so, he greets you today. He whispered this morning when you drew your first waking breath. He serenaded you with sounds until you stumbled out of your cardboard box. He murmured when you tapped the dew from your shoes before stepping into your car. His eyes glistened as you drove to work. You misunderstood and just put the visor down, fumbling for sunglasses. His arms reached for you, he noticed your stains, but it did not matter. He has no prejudice regarding color, location or possessions. "How many hurts there?" Too many. How long has it been since someone nuzzled you and made you smile? Much too long. How long until stains become permanent on hearts, minds and souls? There is no stain too tough for him to cleanse. Won't you "untuck" today and let Him hold you for a minute? Too many grownups living in cardboard boxes, well tucked, too many stains; when there is a Father. He is the Father to the Fatherless, and we all need a Father. Some of you will just pick up the pace after you feel this, crawl back into your cardboard box defending your condition. Maybe others will find a place to kneel. If this drives you outside in solitude for a few moments, you are blessed. If reading this causes you to leave behind your bag of small possessions, the phone, fax machine, radio and the children, there is hope. Walk outside, take an earnest look upward, breathe in deeply and extend your palm to him with expectation. Maybe you will hear his whispering in the breeze, or you might feel his embrace in the moving clouds and maybe you will be calmed by the aimless fluttering butterfly. Aimless; yet belonging, comfortable, happy, content with floating in a large field in a large world, with a big Creator personal enough to touch. Jesus is a Father to the fatherless. Which means then, that we all have a Father. We can now remove Fatherless from our vocabulary, tear down our cardboard boxes, untuck just a little, and run fervently to his lap and listen to his stories. The Traveling Evangelist David W. King kingdavidw@juno.com Send David an email and let him know what you thought of his story! ***************************************** A little bit about David: I am a 35 year old preacher with a family of three children and a wife named Karen. I was called into the ministry when I was 17 years old and after 15 years of training and schooling, I am now full-time on the road as a traveling evangelist. My family and I live in a 33 ft RV and travel from state to state preaching, holding revivals, camp-meetings, youth camps, etc. I have a 13 year old son named Jonathan, a 9 year old girl named Stephanie and a 6 year old son named Nathan. My wife Karen and I met while she was in Bible College in Jackson, Miss. and I was in the Air Force stationed in Little Rock, AR. We long-distance dated for about six months and then married. We have been best of friends and best of mates for the past 15 years. ___________________________________________________ Thought For The Day: "Hindsight explains the injury that foresight would have prevented." Verse for the Day: "Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you...When you walk, your steps will not be hampered; when you run, you will not stumble." Proverbs 4:6,12 Kid's Thought For The day: "It's hard not to like someone who likes you." Parent's Thought For The Day "One of the most important things to remember about infant care is: never change diapers in midstream." (Don Marquis) Coach's Thought For The Day "Games are just moments in time, wins and losses just a blip on the learning line. Coaching is permanent, for what you give to those you teach will always be remembered. Many will take the skill ideas, including the mental ones, and give it to others. Skills for the game of volleyball as well as the game of life." (John Kessel) Deep Thought For The Day: "He who lives in glass house dresses in basement." _ /_/\/\ MICHAEL T. POWERS \_\ / THUNDER27@aol.com http://members.aol.com/Thunder27/index.html /_/ \ "For I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but \_\/\ \ Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body I live for the Son \_\/ of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me." Galatians 2:20 Video Imagery (Michael's Video Production Business) "I thought of you first after my family sat down to watch the video we gave them. They loved it, to say the least! Within thirty seconds my mom was crying and my dad did too. They said it was the best Christmas gift we could have given them!! You did such a beautiful job! They were so suprised and so touched---they really, really, really loved it. Thanks for helping to make it so special to us all. 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