_________________________________________ {Straight From the Heart} *Our Son Came Home* 6/14/00 _________________________________________ Welcome to "Straight From the Heart!" If you enjoy this free daily email service, I encourage you to forward it on to family and friends. If this has been passed along to you and you want to join the list, just send a blank email to: Thunder27@aol.com I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism, so feel free to write me (Michael T. Powers) and let me know what you think! __________________________________________ Our Son Came Home By: Virginia M. Baty The phone rang. It was Father's Day, and our youngest son, Dale, was calling long distance to wish his dad a happy Father's Day! This would be an unforgettable Father's Day. After chatting a while, he told us that he had accepted Christ as his personal Savior only five days before. Needless to say, we were thrilled beyond words, for we had prayed for his salvation for 10 long years. There was little sleep that night as we continued to praise God for His goodness to us in bringing Dale "home!" Dale is our third son, the middle child of five, all born in the span of five and one-half years. He was always a loving child and possibly needed more attention than we were able to give him. However, we have committed that to God, knowing that we did our best with His help. At a very early age, we dedicated all of our children to God, realizing how much we needed His guidance and strength to raise them for Him. They were each taught Christian principles and we went to church as a family from the beginning. They were involved in the activities of the church from early childhood through most of their teen years. One of the scriptures we have stood upon during these years is Isaiah 49:25, "I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I will save thy children." Our son began making wrong choices at an early age. There were, of course, the usual childhood conflicts, but in his teen years he began to drink alcoholic beverages and smoke marijuana. It was never done in front of us, but he never lied about these things when confronted with the evidence. We are grateful for this and felt that there was hope. By the time Dale was in high school, things were nearly unbearable at times. And I never went to sleep at night until he was home. We prayed continually that God would keep him safe. He tells us stories of not knowing how he got home many times and testifies that he was sure he arrived home safely because we were praying for him. There were times during those years that we were at the end of our strength and understanding, but faith in God gave us courage to keep going. We did impress upon Dale that he was only hurting himself, and though we were crushed and disappointed in his actions, we would always love him, and that God loved him too! He was admonished that if he got into trouble that involved the police or jail, we could not or would not bail him out. He would pay the consequences! Dale drove a motorcycle and did spend one night in the city jail. He was arrested for driving under the influence of alcohol, plus fleeing to avoid arrest, and speeding. We did appear with him in court to show our love and support, but the hardest thing we ever had to do was to leave him in jail that day. He tells us now, it was good for him. Only God knows why he didn't get into more trouble. We never gave up, knowing God would answer prayer in His own time and for everyone's good. Dale finished high school only because we insisted. I threatened to walk him to every class, and I think he thought I would. After graduation, he moved to an apartment with friends so that he would be able to enjoy the life-style he had chosen without our rules. Shortly after that, we felt God leading us to another town 200 miles away, and a new job. We had to leave our son in God's hands! We knew we had done all we could with our influence. We continued to pray and tried our best to keep communication lines open. We began to pray that God would send someone across his path that would have a real impact on his life and be able to win him to Christ. John 6:44 became a refuge for us: "No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him." That was our only hope! Following a series of circumstances, including my healing from cancer, Dale indicated that he was "thinking" of becoming a Christian. We answered his many questions and kept praying. That year, he was laid off from work and having too much time on his hands, he decided to take guitar lessons. As a boy he had sung in the City Boys' Choir and had a beautiful voice. Of course, the devil taunted us with the idea that Dale would get involved in a rock group, but we held on to God's promise and kept praying. During the next few months, his guitar teacher, who was also on drugs, became a Christian and began to witness to Dale. Our son saw his teacher's life changed and watched as God worked miracles to save his marriage. Dale began to think of how rotten his own life was. He had a lovely wife, a nice home, tow cars, money in the bank, but he was miserable! At the same time, our second son, who lived in the same town and had been praying and fasting for Dale, along with trying to spend extra time with him. He was a big influence in the change that ultimately took place in Dale's life. One night, on the way home from his brother's home, Dale began to reflect on his past life and present condition. He thought of his oldest brother, who had just taken his first pastoral assignment, who never had much of this world'' goods throughout the years of his college training, and yet, was always happy. By the time Dale reached home, he went directly to his bedroom, knelt by his bed, and asked God for forgiveness and was wonderfully saved! God delivered him from all his bad habits. Dale is living proof that God does hear and answer prayer! By Virginia M. Baty vmbwrites@juno.com ***** A little bit about Virginia: I am a free lance writer and live in Olathe, Kansas with my husband of 47 years, David. We have five grown children and 13 grandchildren. I have been writing personal interest stories and poetry since 1983. My hobbies are reading, walking, piano playing, and chrocheting. ___________________________________________________ Requests: From: tmcphers@MNSi.Net (WiseHearts) Hi Michael, If at all possible, I would appreciate it if you could put this prayer request in tomorrow's issue of Straight From The Heart. This lady is a good friend of mine. Take care -- Terri I'm asking for prayers for a close family member who is undergoing surgery for prostate cancer on Wednesday, June 14th. It's a frightening time, as you can expect, for all of us who love him, and I know that every single prayer counts. Thank You! Michelle shell@mnsi.net ********* From: DHAngelGirl72@aol.com I have a couple of prayer requests. 1) A lady named Dianne who belongs to my best friend's church is going next Tuesday the 19th to get more testing done to see if she has Multiple Sclerosis. It can be a tricky disease but God walks with me daily as I know He will with Dianne. Her name is Dianne Scutt and her e-mail addy is Praynscutt@aol.com. She has two grown boys in their mid 20's and a teenage daughter 2) I have been really sick all day. I think I have the flu. I'm just wiped out. I pray it's just because I had a long day yesterday with Physical Therapy, a friend from the internet and his fiancee is visiting me, and my women's Small Group last night. 3) I am missing my fiance' Stephen terribly. Tomorrow it will be exactly 7 months since I've seen him. He'll be back later in the year and we will finally be married, but right now it's hard on us both 4) My Grandfather is having surgery July 2nd. Please keep him and my Grandmother in prayers. Pray that my Grandmother will have the strength to take care of him. 5) My Mom is also having her gallbladder removed July 13th. 6) My Dad is taking Zyban to quit smoking and it seems to be helping. Love In Christ, Deb ___________________________________________________ Thought For The Day: "The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank." (Dante Gabriel Rossetti) Verse for the Day: Only a fool would say to himself, "There is no God." Psalm 53:1 Kid's Thought For The day: "If a lady has a black thing on her tooth, tell her." Parent's Thought For The Day "If you think it's easy to take candy away from a baby - you should try it." (Henny Youngman) Coach's Thought For The Day "The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your arm." Deep Thought For The Day: "Daisy Air Rifles: "Keeping kids off your lawn for over forty years." _ /_/\/\ MICHAEL T. POWERS \_\ / THUNDER27@aol.com http://members.aol.com/Thunder27/index.html /_/ \ "For I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but \_\/\ \ Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body I live for the Son \_\/ of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me." Galatians 2:20 Video Imagery (Michael's Video Production Business) "I thought of you first after my family sat down to watch the video we gave them. They loved it, to say the least! Within thirty seconds my mom was crying and my dad did too. They said it was the best Christmas gift we could have given them!! You did such a beautiful job! They were so suprised and so touched---they really, really, really loved it. Thanks for helping to make it so special to us all. My mom mentioned how the songs were perfect for the video too! Thanks again!" 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