_________________________________________ {Straight From the Heart} *Applauding My Father* 6/15/00 _________________________________________ Welcome to "Straight From the Heart!" If you enjoy this free daily email service, I encourage you to forward it on to family and friends. If this has been passed along to you and you want to join the list, just send a blank email to: Thunder27@aol.com I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism, so feel free to write me (Michael T. Powers) and let me know what you think! __________________________________________ APPLAUDING MY FATHER By: Lynn Lombard The one person I admire more than anyone else in this world is my father. It may sound traditional - daddy's little girl admiring one truly good man in her life. But that isn't the case for me. I have watched him ever since I was a young girl, overcoming the many obstacles life threw his way. And I have watched him succeed even when times were tough. My dad is not the type of man who openly shows his feelings, but I know how much he loves me each time I kiss him goodbye, each conversation we share, each smile he gives me. Last Father's Day, as part of my gift to him, I wrapped up a magazine containing a poem I had written about him. And as I watched him read it, for the second time in my life, I saw his eyes water. He came over and gave me a hug and a kiss and tried to conceal his emotions in front of the family. But I knew I had touched a part of him deep inside. I will always look to my dad for inspiration in making the best out of life. He's always worked hard and that is one memory that continues to stick out more than others. He never took handouts, he wasn't lazy and never taught us to be. "Get a job, earn your money, then buy the things you want," is something I can hear my father saying. He may have a lot of the things he wants now, but it wasn't always that way. At six years of age, I saw my dad cry for the first time. My mom had passed away and I watched him light up a cigarette, a habit he had stopped long ago, and try to smoke away his sadness. I felt how much he loved us kids the most in the months that followed. Each day after dad got home from work, he would take us all to the cemetery. We would visit mom's grave, say a prayer, make her headstone look as pretty as we could. Although it was not easy to continue life without her, we did. And it was my dad's love for us that healed us of this tragedy. He took charge and took care of us the best way he could. A year later, he met a wonderful woman, divorced with two girls of her own, and made her his bride. Remarried with five children to support, his strength amazed me. Into a new house in an unfamiliar town, a fresh start was waiting for us. But things were never easy. First, my dad, and then my new mom lost their jobs. My dad applied and trained to be a correctional officer and for the first five years, he was stationed out of the area, forcing him to live away from home. He would come back once a week to spend his two days off with us, but it was hard not having him around, and hard on mom and dad as they struggled with the bills. It was a tough climb back to the top, but we made it. Now that I'm grown up and away from the haven, I make a point of going to visit my parents once a week. Sitting in the living room talking, watching a movie, or playing a game of darts are things I truly cherish now. We joke with one another and my favorite part of being with my dad is seeing him laugh. Knowing he is happy, living the kind of life he wants, helps to fulfill my life. And, although he's always been a silent kind of man, never a conversationalist if it's just me and him, I know when I need advice, he's there to help. He is not afraid to tell me what he thinks and I'm glad because his opinions mean a lot to me. It seems so long ago when I was that little girl, scared of my dad's authority. We laugh about it now, knowing it no longer holds true. But that doesn't mean I don't respect him. I respect him more than ever because I see how wise and determined he's always been. My father is a wonderful man and his presence in my life is so very precious. I thank God each day for having him here with me. I have always felt honored to be his daughter. And I only hope that I can make him as proud of me as I am of him. Lynn Lombard ddlandlml@gateway.net Send Lynn an email and let her know what you thought of her story! ******************** A little bit about Lynn: Lynn is a writer and legal administrative assistant who lives in Western New York. To read "Dad, Have I Told You Lately How Much I Love You?" the poem that brought a tear to her father's eyes, go to: Dad, Have I Told You Lately How Much I Love You? http://www.themestream.com/gspd_browse/browse/view_article.gsp?c_id=74593&id_list=74593,74381,65410,65240,65219,65209,64384,58578,58511,56394 ___________________________________________________ Requests: From: shell@MNSi.Net (Michelle) Michael Thank you for putting a prayer in Straight From The heart. I really appreciated it. His operation went well. Were not sure how bad he is, the doctor had to run out before he talked to anyone. He was told that he had cancer in his prostate, his kidneys were reading that their was cancer in them. His doctor said his kidneys could be reading high because of the cancer in his prostate. They were checking for cancer in his bowels also. I felt asking Terri for a prayer would make a big difference. I'll let you know what happens, thank you again. Michelle ***************** From: laketa@ticon.net (LBenedict) I want to thank everyone for all the prayers for Ed these past few weeks. Ed died the 12th at home with family present. He will be sadly missed by his family and friends. LaKeta Benedict ___________________________________________________ Thought For The Day: "It is possible to be too big for God to use you but never too small for God to use you." Verse for the Day: "A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor." Proverbs 29:23 Kid's Thought For The day: "If your daddy asks you to pull his finger, don't!" Parent's Thought For The Day " If you want the last word in an argument, say, "You're right." Coach's Thought For The Day "Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm; it moves stones, it charms brutes. Enthusiasm is the genius of sincerity and truth accomplishes no victories without it." (Edwar Bulwer-Lytton) Deep Thought For The Day: "Happy Birthday! 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