_________________________________________ {Straight From the Heart} *It's The Little Things* 6/23/00 _________________________________________ Welcome to "Straight From the Heart!" If you enjoy this free daily email service, I encourage you to forward it on to family and friends. If this has been passed along to you and you want to join the list, just send a blank email to: Thunder27@aol.com I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism, so feel free to write me (Michael T. Powers) and let me know what you think! ___________________________________________________ IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS By: Brigitte Carucci Mesa Well, my husband and I finally closed on our first house last week, and the hard work has begun! We spent the better part of the weekend painting, peeling wallpaper, installing shelves and many other fun projects that have left me, well, quite exhausted, to say the least! But it's all in the name of home ownership, and that's "a good thing," as Martha Stewart would say. My husband and I were walking around the front and back yard of the property, deciding what we want to plant, to keep and to do with our new garden. There is an old brick pathway that leads to the front door. The house that we bought is an old Victorian and the old, peeling, crumbling bricks go nicely... my vote was to just do weeding between them, whereas my husband's vote was to pull them all up and lay down brand new brick. Luckily, I won. In the midst of these weeds there is a very tiny little sprig of the smallest purple flowers I've ever seen. I instructed my husband that when he's weeding this pathway to be sure and be careful around the flower and not disturb them; he was to leave them there. He thought it was quite funny that the thing I cared most about was this tiny purple flower that most people would yank right up in the quickness of doing their weeding chores. But, when you come right down to it, it's kind of typical of my character, and he would quickly agree. See, the thing of it is... it's great to make sure that you are nice to people you interact with, smiling, etc., it's great that you respect your elders and play with your pets.... but it shouldn't stop there. Your caring attitude, respectfulness and demeanor needs to extend to the very smallest of things, the very tiniest of creatures, for it to really count. Everybody can care about the obvious things, it's the ones that are most overlooked that will really matter in the end. It's something I try to practice day to day, and it's a good habit to pick up on. My stepdaughter's first instinct when she sees an ant is to step on it, but I try to explain that even though we might think bugs are yucky, they still have mommies and daddies too. They have a family that's waiting for them at home just like she does, and imagine how upset they'd be if their son/daughter didn't make it home. Hey, it's a stretch, but it's true. Think about it. It is important to be kind to people, remember your pleases and thank-yous, hold doors open for people and all the other good mannerisms that you were taught growing up. But more importantly, remember that it doesn't just stop with the obvious beings that you encounter... remember the struggling flowers, the meandering ants, the stray cat, the fish in the ocean.... Remember it all, because if you don't, who will? Brigitte Carucci Mesa MondayMoments@aol.com Send Brigitte an email and let her know what you thought of her story! --------- Brigitte Carucci Mesa has been a business owner for over 11 years. In addition to freelance writing, she also provides marketing, copywriting, editing and proofreading services. To subscribe to her weekly e-newsletter or discuss a project with her, e-mail: mondaymoments@aol.com. ___________________________________________________ Thought For The Day: "It is not guided missiles, but guided morals that is our great need today." (George W. Ford) Verse for the Day: "The man of integrity walks securely..." Proverbs 10:9 Kid's Thought For The day: "You feel a lot braver the second time you jump out of a tree." Parent's Thought For The Day "Reasoning with a two year old is about as productive as changing seats on the Titanic. (Robert Scotellaro) Coach's Thought For The Day "I always say that to appreciate warm weather, you must experience cold. I wouldn't change one thing - all the embarrassing moments, the defeats, all of everything - through all of his, I have learned me." (Floyd Patterson, former professional heavyweight boxer) Deep Thought For The Day: "Everyday I beat my own previous record for number of consecutive days I've stayed alive." (George Carlin) _ /_/\/\ MICHAEL T. POWERS \_\ / THUNDER27@aol.com http://members.aol.com/Thunder27/index.html /_/ \ "For I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but \_\/\ \ Christ lives in me. 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