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{Straight From the Heart} *For the Sake of Friendship* 11/15/00
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For The Sake Of Friendship
By Nitin Kulkarni
Shiv Narain Mankad had not much in common with me.
We were not in the same college. We were neither neighbours nor lived in the
same locality. Yes, We lived in the same town & it was a brief stay together
in a NCC camp that had brought us closer. We ended up being close friends.
My parents and other friends were always little uneasy about our friendship
and often were reluctant to express acceptance to this young lad from the
countryside.
I use to wonder at times as to why dont they accept him as he is. I feel I
can now understand their dilemma as they were often looking for a common
platform of worldly factors like family status, education level, mannerism,
social strata etc., which probably was not there.
Shiv Narain was quite unmindful of all these expressions as I never found
him disturbed by their marked indifference towards him.
Shiv was a true friend in the best sense of the word. Always there, when
friends needed him.
We both were quite actively involved with National Cadet Corps or NCC as
it is known to most of us here in India. We had attended many camps
together including the Republic Day Parade Camp which is a dream camp for
each NCC Cadet.
Now, there was another opportunity. A cultural contingent was to be sent
for the Republic Day Parade Camp. Shiv had brought the news that selections
would be held next Sunday at NCC Headquarters and all interested were to
report for an on the spot selection.
Quite a few aspirants had gathered that day. Our NCC Commandant declared
that only four Cadets are to be sent from our Squadron.
Our interviews went off well and after screening, a stage came where three
Cadets had been finalised, and there was a tie between me and Shiv Narain
for the fourth place. Both of us were interviewed again.
Shiv Narain was interviewed first. He came out smiling patted my back and
said Best of Luck !, you must give it your best try.
I went in and the next few moments probably saw the worst side of me.
Acting as the most selfish person I have ever known, I pleaded my case for
inclusion in the team, obviously at the cost of my friends place.
I replied in response to a question that I should be selected because I am
more skilled than Shiv ( which was a fact. I was the Keyboard player for our
cultural team ) and Shiv has attended the camp twice in as many years where
as I have done it only once.
I cannot forget all my life what the Commandant said to me. He said Boy,
You should consider yourself really blessed to have a friend like Shiv, who
has already given up his candidature in your favour, using the same
arguments.
The walk from the interview room to the waiting hall was the longest I had
ever experienced in my life. I had a heavy load of guilt on my shoulders. I
did not know how to face Shiv.
But Shiv, made it very simple as always. He embraced me the moment I came
out of the interview room and congratulated me with a child like excitement,
that was so pure and pious.
I could not muster enough courage even later during the period that we were
together to tell my friend that I, in one of my weakest moments, had behaved
quite unlike a friend and that I am sorry about it.
The fact that I am writing this story is a testimony that I am still
carrying the load of my guilt on my shoulders. I hope I will feel lighter
now that I have written about it.
I have an intense desire to meet Shiv to tell him that he was the last Shiv,
I have been unfriendly with and that I want him to know it for the sake of
friendship.
Nitin Kulkarni © 2000
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Check out Nitin's story entitled "The Painter's Mistake" which ran last month here on SFTH. It can be found in our archives at:
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Request:
From: AMMahnke@webtv.net (Angi Mahnke)
Please keep 3 families in your prayers. 3 young girls, high school
seniors, were killed on Sunday afternoon in a car accident on their way
home from a high school championship football game. They were students
at Chelsea High School in Chelsea, MI and the whole town, if not the
whole Southeastern Michigan area, is grieving. There were 7 girls in
the van and the other 4 survived the crash.
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Name : Gary Benner Blaine, Washington
Date : 11/12/00
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Date : 11/12/00
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Message : I just received the Iwo Jima statue setter from a friend, and looked at your website. It sure looks interesting. A kind of Paul Harvey's Rest of the story format. There should be many more investigative reports like this, with the "human" side told. Thanks. John
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Message : I received a copy of "Iwo Jima" story over the email at work. It was such an excellent story I emailed a copy of it to my home to share it with my wife. Then we received our Heartwarmers email and found the story there, too.
I also visited your website and read the stories there. I have three boys and spend as much time "being kids" with them as I can. Like my wife says, "We're building memories for them."
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Name : Joyce Paksi
Date : 11/11/00
Email Address : rpaksi@mintcity..
Message : Hi Michael, I can't begin to tell you how much I chuckled while reading your story about the bath tub..It brought back many happy memories for me of when my children were growing up..I have three grown children, with the youngest being 30. I am so glad that you realize how precious your time is with your child and your wife.. The children grow up so fast today..Just remember while playing with your son, you are building happy memories, that he will carry with him for the rest of his life..They remember all the little things that seem so unimportant to us as something so very special.. So it does not matter what you do with the few minutes that you can share with him. It may be the one most important thing he will always remember.. So take a few minutes out each day to build HAPPY memories. On holiday get togethers we sit around and tell the good things we remember while growing up..I am so glad we spent what time we could with our children..Now we re-live the growing years over again while watching our grandchildren. They also like to hear the stories about there parents when they were only children..Your stories are just great keep up the good work.. Joyce Paksi
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